Thursday, November 11, 2010

Respect the child's decision to [the sheep language Lianpian]

 Respect the child's decision to [the sheep language Lianpian]
text: red sheep
a man to a variety of character, some people outward, and some people are introverts. Because the person's character decides to do things the way decided to do. See wild boar that children do not love performing in front of people very angry and cried with anger, and this one is unwise as a parent, the second is not necessary. way of life of each person and learning their way, children are no exception, the children have their own ways of thinking and learning.
knows children will sing, will be dancing, but children do not want to display, this is not a fault. Parents do not need crying with rage. Some kids just do not like performing in front of others Even if she would, she did not like, does not mean there is nothing wrong with her, just like the speech of her life and the children are different. As long as she normally lives with the children to integrate into the collective, not only there will not be a problem , but children do not like performing.
parents do not like the show has not rush into that. If parents do not understand the teacher said the child would not, and learn very well, just do not show, this is a matter of taste . Not everyone likes to show himself in front of others. Some people like to show appreciation of his talents for others, but some people do not like the show, this is the issue of character is not the child's quality problems. not because children do not will therefore not show, so be careful not to.
If the child does not love performing, you have to show her, she would mischief. We are long from the kids, if adults do so they do not like to do their own , it is sure to do well, but also a little trouble thinking of E sub-demon, rebellious to the child's psychological all activated. after she let her show and will not go. because she thought I said I do not like performances, let me show you why she would think you do not understand her. and parents do, think they are good for the children, and my heart do not know breath. The results were both unhappy. In fact, if we really want to show the child that she would take the initiative to say that I want a performance, if you want, and children together in play, but if the teacher does not vote for her, she also unhappy.
children do not go, as long as the parents do not know why she's performing on the line . do not need to because the kids do not we show the sad face. In fact, that sad that the white people's children are playing, my child did not, does not seem to face. is in fact the proud adult psychology as a ghost. as long as You just normal to go look at it on the line. Think for a child to school is not the chance to perform in front of others, but to allow children to learn more ability and knowledge. as long as the child's knowledge and ability to develop normal water and you nothing to be careful.
parents must show the child to change the situation does not love, but also to change step by step. rather than the children do not show their anger crying, blaming the child. In fact, so long as the child, do not show will not lose anything. can not prove your child the number of poor children than others. He would not perform in front of others, not be forced, it is not every child in the socialization process must be done, which is not misconduct. each person a different path of development, some children may be naturally inclined to perform, but some children do not like, this is normal, parents just let go, just normal to treat performance problems and non-performing . then suddenly see the light out.

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